It's that time of year again, where people start asking me and my kids what they are going to wear or what we are going to do for Halloween. After many years with a strong opinion of Halloween, I realized that I needed to take a stand for the things that I believe in, rooting them in truth, not just opinions. I know a lot of Christians don't share my conviction, and I don't expect them to.
(Romans 14:3) I'm just sharing my view to give people something to think about, and because it is a large part of my testimony in how I became a Christian.
My parents became Christians after I was born and later learned more and more about Halloween and its origins. They felt a conviction about it, but up until that time we had been celebrating it (I do remember trick-or-treating as a child). I was 6 and my brother was 4 and my parents sat us down and talked to us about it, saying that they felt it was a day that didn't honor God, but that we could decide. Through talking with them, I said that I wanted to honor and glorify God with my life and prayed to accept Christ into my heart that day and decided not to celebrate Halloween anymore, even though it meant giving up all that candy! (Not an easy decision for a little kid!)
I've taken some flack for it through the years, and every year I reevaluate my decision and conviction. Especially since having kids, I have wondered each year if I am making the right decision for the right reasons, because now it is a matter of conscience not only for me, but for my family, and I need to be able to explain it to them.
The fact remains that Halloween does have the appearance of evil. Whether it started that way or not, doesn’t matter. I don’t know how anyone can argue this, just go into any store this time of year and look at the displays. The holiday is about being scary, and that’s what draws a lot of people to it. What does the Bible say about Christians and associating with evil? 3 John 11 says “do not imitate what is evil, but what is good.” Ephesians 5:11 says “have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness”, and isn’t that one of the things that some people like about Halloween, the scary, dark aspect of it?
My husband doesn't have the same strong conviction about Halloween as I do, but he doesn't want to do anything to make me stumble, and since I am firmly against it, he is fine with not celebrating it.
Romans 14 speaks to this, as well as
1 Corinthians 10:23-24 says "'Everything is permissible'- but not everything is beneficial. 'Everything is permissible'- but not everything is constructive. Nobody should seek his own good, but the good of others." Abstinence from Halloween and the practices associated with it seems to be the better choice. Ted came up with a good analogy about movies that are rated R. They are not beneficial/good for us to watch, so we choose not to watch them
(exceptions are made for movies like The Passion of the Christ). It is not a sin per se, and neither is celebrating Halloween, and it is not spelled out in the Bible, but it is a conviction we have and a standard that we hold to.
We have decided not to attend any "Fall Festivals" at churches or the like because "happy costumes are welcome". In the past I had thought about attending, since it is supposed to be a Fall Festival and not a Halloween party. But for me it crosses a line with the costumes. I don't have a problem with dressing up in costumes in general, but only because it is associated with Halloween. If the Fall Festival were held in September or on any other day of the year, would there be costumes? Probably not. The reason people are dressing up in costumes is because it is a Halloween custom, and for that reason, I don't want to associate with it. If I were invited to a costume party in any other month than October, I would probably go, but I won't dress up for Halloween.
Our family has started a new tradition on Halloween, shopping for the Operation Christmas Child boxes, which I much prefer as a use of the night, as it is an activity that glorifies God in giving to others. H started asking questions when she was 3, and I tried my best to explain it to her. I basically said that I don't think celebrating Halloween makes God happy, and we want to make God happy with our lives. She and her sisters agree with that, and they understand that buying things for the Operation Christmas Child boxes does make God happy, and they really enjoy that. Let me leave you with one final verse,
Philippians 4:8--"Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things."